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How can I help my child with reading comprehension?

Wednesday, August 27th, 2008 | Reading | 1 Comment

**This article originally appeared on qwowi.com**

As a professor specializing in reading, I am frequently asked this question by worried parents.  I’m not surprised, considering how complex and confusing comprehension can be.  Although there are no “quick-fix recipes” to solve the complexities of comprehension, I can offer some relatively simple strategies.  When applied consistently and patiently, these strategies will help comprehension dramatically.  The key is to make comprehension explicit with strategy use.  Since comprehension is in our heads, and is therefore invisible and intangible, as adults, we need to make our strategy use as hands-on, concrete, and explicit as possible.

How many times have you read an entire paragraph, or even a whole page, and you have no idea what you just read? 

It happens all of the time, to the best of us!  Even really accomplished readers suffer from this same problem at times.  That is because our eyes can float over words, and our brains automatically decode the words, yet we are not truly reading because we are not making any meaning from the words.  In order to say we have sincerely read something, we have to have derived meaning from, it. Otherwise, the glossy-eyed “reading” is simply referred to as decoding, and not reading. In other words, when we read, it has to make sense, otherwise we’re not really reading. 

Comprehension is NOT natural for many people.

Many children are decoders, not readers.  Children must know that text is supposed to make sense. Similarly, lots of children, unfortunately, simply don’t know how to comprehend, merely because no one has ever showed them how to make meaning from a text.  The connections come easer and quicker for some than others.  Most adults cannot point to a specific time when they learned to comprehend.  It is something we just… did.  The problem is that some youngsters need and deserve explicit instruction in how to comprehend.  When this happens, they can grow up loving to read, and seeing the value in reading!  Not surprisingly, folks who have severe difficulties comprehending hate to read.  It’s a safe bet to assume they would love to read if they had explicit comprehension instruction.

Comprehension is an active, inner conversation

Unlike passive activities such as playing video games or watching TV, reading is an active process in our brains.  Strategic readers address their thinking in an inner conversation that helps them make sense of what they read.  Help to foster these inner (and outer) conversations with your children by discussing their texts with them. 

Readers take the written word and construct meaning based on their own thoughts, knowledge, and experiences.  Help your child to make explicit, personal connections to the text they are reading. 

Provide structure for your child to think when they read.  Children must develop an awareness of their own thinking, so that they can monitor themselves while they read.

Cognitive Capacity

In my other recent article for Query Cat entitled “How can we help struggling readers?” I shared some of the following pointers for children who are having trouble reading.  In our brains, we have what is called a Cognitive Capacity.  I sometimes jokingly refer to this concept as my “cup runneth over!”  In simple terms, when any of us feel frustrated with something, our brain power stops. There is only so much we can focus on at a given time, and the rest understandably turns to mush.  Unfortunately, we have all had what I refer to as a “meltdown,” when the stress of something just gets to be too much.  Typically, and sadly, this is exactly what happens to a reader’s Cognitive Capacity when he/she is trying to comprehend something that is just too difficult.  The child is trying so hard to decode a word– letter by painful letter– that he/she loses track, and can’t make heads or tails of the entire thing. 

I know this may seem overly simplistic, but…

Your children need books that they can actually read!  When considering your child’s reading comprehension difficulties, the difficulty level of the text may be more than 90% of the battle.  When a book is too hard, your child is using up all of his/her brain power on decoding the words, that he/she simply cannot make any sense of it. On the other hand, when your child reads books that are comfortable, he/she can have the inner conversations and attempt to make sense of the text in an enjoyable and much less agonizing way. 

8 Magical Strategies

When you regularly and thoughtfully work with your child on the following strategies, you will notice an impressive difference in not just the child’s comprehension, but probably in several other aspects of the child’s life as well.  When you teach a child to comprehend, you are also teaching a child to empathize, to infer, and to become a more tolerant, understanding person who can think outside of the box.  That is precisely why so many children struggle with comprehension—developmentally, it is difficult for children to get beyond literal, concrete understandings.  As the child becomes older, especially around 3rd grade and up, it is essential that your child gradually become more aware of others’ feelings and perspectives.  That will help him/her to understand various perspectives in texts, and in life. 

Practice these strategies patiently, one at a time, with some favorite books at home, which also happen to be at a comfortable reading level for your child.  Remember, the more explicit you make the strategies, the better your child will comprehend.  Gradually, your child will begin to implement these strategies independently, but please check in with your child consistently to see how he/she is progressing.

1.  Make connections

The first of the strategies also happens to be one of my personal favorites, because it’s fun and straightforward.  Simply encourage your child to make personal connections to the content of the book he/she is reading.  You could even jot the connections on sticky notes in colorful magic markers and stick them in the book, or make a cute chart of the connections. 

There are three different kinds of connections we tend to make while reading: text-to-self, text-to-text, and text-to-world

Text-to-self connections are easiest.  We merely relate concepts in the book to aspects of our own lives.  For example, “I love the lake in this book.  It reminds me of our summer vacations when we always visited that lake in New York.”

Text-to-text connections are also fun and easy.  Obviously, you just relate the book you’re currently reading to another book you’ve read.  Perhaps the characters in this book remind of the characters in a book you read last week.  Also, don’t feel constricted by the text-to-text label.  I always encourage my students to think of movies and TV shows to which they can relate their books, too!

Text-to-world connections are trickier.  With these connections, you want to relate what you’ve just read to a larger, worldly phenomenon, and not just something specific to your own life.  This is hard for children, for obvious reasons.  Children have little experience beyond their personal existence.  They have yet to truly understand the world.  Likewise, developmentally, it’s challenging for many children to imagine that other people even have different perspectives than the ones to which they are accustomed.  This is where the hard work comes in for both parents and teachers.  Encourage your child to think outside the box.  Show them in compelling ways that other people may think and behave differently.  This will develop over time, so be patient!  There more explicit you are with making text-to-world connections, they better your child will become at it.

2.  Infer

Making inferences is similar to the text-to-world connection strategy.  In order for children to adequately understand, they must be able to make inferences, yet this is a difficult concept even for some adults to grasp!  Gradually work with children on drawing conclusions based on what information they know.  Likewise, show them how to make educated guesses, and to look for hints to back up their reasoning.  You could make lists and pictures together to help this strategy along.  As always, model inferring for your child in an explicit way, so that he/she can see how you derive conclusions. Do you openly empathize with others?  Do you articulate how another may have a different perspective than you?  All of these explicitly modeled behaviors will help your child with the all-too important task of inferring. 

3. Predictions

An uncomplicated strategy to foster comprehension is to simply ask your child to make frequent predictions.  Most parents and teachers make the mistake of only asking children to make predictions at the beginning of a book.  Instead, ask children to make predictions at the onset of a book, as well as at strategic points throughout the book.  This stimulates their thinking in a number of ways.  At the end of the book, discuss with children whether or not they liked the ending.  Would they have ended it differently?  If so, how? 

4.  Visualize

One of the best parts of reading is to picture the story or the content in one’s head. Ask children to describe how they picture the characters and the setting in the story. If it’s non-fiction, ask them to draw their own pictures of the content.  Another fun activity is to compare and contrast visualizations between book and movie versions of various stories.

5.  Questions

Asking children questions is the simplest and most old-fashioned way to ensure they have understood material.  Don’t just ask questions at the end of a given passage.  I would suggest stopping at strategic points to see how they are doing throughout a passage.  Furthermore, the quality of the questions themselves can also determine the quality of understanding.  Most people only ask explicit, concrete questions that only pertain to memory.  For example, “what color shirt was he wearing?”  Instead, I encourage people to ask implicit questions, which are open-ended, and to which there is not necessarily a right or wrong answer, but by which you can still determine how well the child understood.  For example, rather than asking what color shirt the character wore, in its place ask “Why was it important that the character wore a blue shirt?”  This causes the child to think in a deeper manner, without having to memorize the color of the shirt, yet you still yield rich insights pertaining to how well the child is comprehending.

6. Determine importance

When you were in high school or college, did you ever have a textbook that turned a fluorescent color because you couldn’t figure out which passages were important, so you just used a highlighter to highlight the entire text?!  This is a common scenario to which most of us can relate.  Sometimes, whether it is a text, or some other aspect of life, we have a hard time determining what is important.  It often has to do with the difficulty level of the content, and how familiar we are with it.  When a subject is overwhelming, confusing, and foreign, it is much harder to determine what is important, than when we are dealing with familiar territory, which is at a comfortable difficulty level for us. 

Practice determining importance with your child.  Explicitly model how you determine what is important.  Show your child how you might look in topic sentences, or at bullet points, titles, or headings to make more sense of a passage.  Practice highlighting a passage together.  Once children know how to extract important information, they can study better, focus better, and provide adequate retellings and/or summaries.

7.  Synthesize

Once children can determine importance, they can begin to synthesize.  The easiest way I can think of to explain synthesis to my students is to use a weaving metaphor.  When we synthesize, we have to take information from different sources, and weave it all together for ourselves.  This is no easy task!  Imagine a weaver who has to select the best spools of thread, based on her knowledge of thread.  Then, she must weave the threads together into one coherent, beautiful piece.  That is precisely what successful readers do when they comprehend.  They weave the information, or synthesize it.  I would suggest putting important facts from a book onto long strips of paper, which could represent threads.  Then, think through how you would weave those important facts together, and you could even physically manipulate the papers until you have your own quilt.  This activity helps a lot when children have to write research papers, or other written responses to text.

8.  Fix-Up Strategies

Last but not least, simply equip your child to have fix-up strategies at his/her fingertips upon which he/she can rely when information breaks down.  When you are reading, won’t you stop and re-read something when you know it’s no longer making sense?  Well, lots of children won’t do that.  They won’t stop!  They just keep going!  Together with your child, brainstorm and make a list of fix-up strategies.  The list could be as simple as “stop, go back, re-read, use a highlighter, predict, ask questions, etc.”  It doesn’t have to be anything fancy.  The two keys are that your child first recognizes when his/her comprehension breaks down, and second, knows a few things he/she can do to help mend that comprehension. 

Having explicit strategies at our fingertips is the secret to success when it comes to comprehension!

For more information, I would highly recommend the book Strategies that Work by Stephanie Harvey and Anne Goudvis.  It is the best book on the market about comprehension, and it is the source of much of the information I condensed for you into this brief article.�

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How can we help struggling readers?

Wednesday, August 27th, 2008 | Reading | No Comments

** This originally appeared on QueryCat.com. **

For those of you with children at home who tend to struggle with reading, I know what a frustrating, vulnerable process it can be.  Our desire to help struggling readers is often over-taken by feelings of inadequacy, or simply just a power of wills.  If there is one thing I have learned in my years as a teacher, professor, and reading specialist, it is that reading is a very complex progression, and people don’t always learn to read in the same ways.  What works for one child, doesn’t work for another.  In this article, I will provide clear-cut, hopeful, and doable suggestions to help your child feel more successful. 

Cycles of success… versus failure

The key is this– often times, when a child feels successful, he/she will have continued success.

Whether it is reading, or anything else in life, when we feel like a failure, we experience continued failure.  When we feel successful, we have continued success.  As adults, the more opportunities we provide children to feel triumphant in reading, the more they will want to read, and the more continued progress they will experience in reading. 

One of the tricks is to create occasions for children to feel sincerely successful, which includes finding books they can actually read with a good degree of accuracy and enjoyment. 

The second trick is to provide children with an array of strategies they can use independently to tackle unknown words.  In this way, children then have the confidence they need to navigate the unknown.

This brings me to my next point…

So, what is reading?

In order to help your child, you must know the answer to this complex question.

Reading is making meaning, not the painful letter-by-letter decoding with which we are all too familiar.

In our brains, we have what is called a Cognitive Capacity.  I simply refer to it as my “cup runneth over!”  In other words, when any of us feel frustrated with something, our brain power seizes. There is only so much we can focus on at a given time, and the rest understandably turns to mush.  Unfortunately, we have all had what I refer to as a “meltdown,” when the stress of something just gets to be too much.  Typically, and sadly, this is precisely what happens to a struggling reader’s Cognitive Capacity.  The child is trying so hard to decode a word– letter by painful letter– that he/she loses track, and can’t make heads or tails of the entire thing. 

Reading (and all learning!) is a “dance of strategies at our fingertips.”  Even as adults, we don’t all know every word we encounter—instead we have a hidden plethora of strategies at our fingertips that we use to quickly make analogies and to chunk words into familiar parts.  Show your child how you do this!  Here are some suggestions:

1.  Go to the dictionary and find some really challenging, long words.  Have fun!  Laugh at the words.  Demonstrate for your child how you break the word down, syllable by syllable, looking for chunks of little words within the big word, which you already know. 

2.  While browsing the Sunday newspaper, purposefully underline long or difficult words in interesting articles.  (Children love to read about animals, sports, etc.)  Read the article aloud for your child, pausing briefly at each hard word.  Explicitly illustrate for your child the strategies you use to figure out that word, then show the child how you go back to re-read, to ensure it all makes sense.  Show your child how you look for context clues (words or pictures around the tricky word) to help you determine the word.  In essence, you are exhibiting for your child there is absolutely no shame in not knowing a word—instead, we can all feel empowered by having strategies at our fingertips to tackle the word.  By modeling and extending explicit strategy use with our children, while reading and writing in authentic contexts, we promote self-monitoring and meaning making.

3.  Prompt your child to use those strategies!

In order to truly read, we need to be balancing three cues we send to our brains:

1.  the meaning of the text
2.  all of structural aspects of the text and the words (looking at the whole word, or the entire sentence)
3.  and the visual cues (usually pictures or individual letters in words)      

 

 

 

 

 

 

Unless our brain is balancing all three of those cues, we are not really reading.  For example, most commonly, children will zoom through a text, and have no idea what it was about.  When the child does encounter an unknown word, he/she will just look at the first couple of letters in the word, attempt to sound it out, give up, maybe look at a picture for a clue, and then guess the word, even though the word makes little to no sense.  That isn’t really reading, and no wonder it’s no fun for your child!  His/her cup runneth over!  Your child is only truly reading when he/she can balance all three of those cues from the brain, looking for meaning, all the structure of the words and sentences, and all of the visual cues, such as the pictures and letters.

What can you do if your child is still having difficulty with what sounds letters make?

This, of course, is the core of all reading.  This is also at the heart of the phonics debate that has been going on for decades.  Some children absolutely need explicit phonics instruction, while some children appear to do well without a regimented program.  If your child needs more assistance with phonics, there is certainly no shame in this, and it can be really fun!  I would recommend the book Phonics They Use by Patricia Cunningham.  It is a favorite text among educators, and I’m sure parents love it, too, because Cunningham provides loads of fun ways to meaningfully play with letters, their sounds, and the ways words come together.  Cunningham’s tone is very down-to-earth, and her phonics games are appropriate for a variety of learners, regardless of age. 

Essentially, you want to ensure your child’s phonemic awareness—the ability to hear and manipulate the sounds in words.  Can your child hear the word “cat” and tell you it has 3 sounds?  “C-a-t… cat!”  Can your child stretch words out and put them back together?  Have fun with these types of playful activities.  Parents often find joy and success by watching educational TV programs such as “Sesame Street” or “Between the Lions” with their children. While watching these programs, pause at key points to explore phonemic awareness with your child.  Between the Lions also has a wonderful book for parents, which can guide anyone on the path to literacy for their child.

Remember—this whole article is about children feeling successful, so…

Your children need books that they can actually read!

A common mistake that can easily be avoided is when books are either too hard or too easy for the reader.  I am frequently reminded of the old “Goldilocks and the Three Bears” analogy.  You don’t want a book that is too easy, or a book that is too hard, you want one that is “just right.”  I call it “the zone.”  Finding “the zone” is not always cut and dry, however.  Your child’s teacher will be able to help you with knowing this exact level, and should also be able to suggest leveled reading books that your child could read regularly.  You could also pick up a book such as Fountas and Pinnell’s Leveled Books, K-8, which has a tremendous list of books, all sorted by their various reading levels, so you can ensure your child is reading in his/her “zone” and proudly watch the zone soar as the child improves.  There is nothing more rewarding!

As you help your child select books, please take context and personal passions into consideration.  Remember, reading is fun, so finding topical books, at a reading level that is comfortable for your child, will make a world of difference, and your child will actually want to read!

When choosing books, among other factors, consider a text’s:

  • Vocabulary complexity
  • Sentence complexity
  • Length
  • Illustration support
  • Overall text structure
  • Page layout
  • Suitability to particular reader (personality, maturity, etc.)
  • Content knowledge
  • Genre    

Last, but certainly not least…

In order to get better at anything, whether it’s skating or reading, you need to do the activity a lot.  As the old saying goes, practice truly does make perfect!  In his book What Really Matters for Struggling Readers, Richard Allington reminds us that kids need to read a lot, and they need to be reading books they can read, and that they enjoy. 

I challenge you to think of creative ways to make reading more fun in your households, so that it just becomes another healthy aspect of your lifestyles.  Reading is just another activity we hope children will do independently, and successfully.  With success, comes more success.

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What are some simple things we can do at home to make reading more fun for children?

Wednesday, August 27th, 2008 | Reading | No Comments

** This article originally appeared on QueryCat.com **

Let’s face it—whether we like it or not, it is all too common for children to be more enthralled with a television show or a video game than to be enchanted with a book.  Admittedly, even though I hold a Ph.D. in Reading, and I am a University professor, I can often be found spending hours in front of the TV, rather than with books.  Still, my heart breaks a little every time I hear a child proclaim that he/she hates to read, or that reading isn’t fun.  In this article, I will share simple, affordable tips for making reading a fun activity to do at home.  In our efforts, we want to create authentic experiences surrounding reading so that children will actually want to read, and so that through reading, children will make strong, personal connections.

Here are some straightforward tips to help us get started:

  • One of the reasons many of us prefer television over reading is because the two activities utilize and stimulate different areas of the brain.  Not surprisingly, watching television tends to be a more passive activity.
  • If your child claims that he/she hates to read, it is often not true.  Frequently, a child who is struggling with reading realizes what a fun and important activity it is, but the child’s embarrassment over his/her difficulties with reading cause him/her to declare reading as a boring or distasteful activity.  If your child describes reading as a tedious or intolerable activity, the answer could be as simple as finding books he/she can actually read with comfort and enjoyment.
  • Last but not least, reading is fun!  Show your child that it is!  Do you read at home?  If not, you may have just uncovered why your child does not think reading is fun.  You are the most powerful force in your child’s life.  You need to model meaningful reading everyday, just as you would model healthy eating and exercising.  Just as you would make nutritious foods and exercise an important aspect of your day, make reading a genuine part of your everyday life.  After all—life is what we make of it.  Just as a personal fitness trainer would advise you to select exercises you actually enjoy and that you can do painlessly, I am merely suggesting the same with reading.

In my other recently featured article on QueryCat entitled, “How do we foster a love of reading in our children?” I wrote:

“Carve out special time in the day and/or week, whether it’s at bedtime, or Sunday afternoons, when you can create ‘warm fuzzy’ memories together that are associated with reading.  By ‘warm fuzzy’ I mean a multi-sensory experience, which doesn’t have to be fancy.  The fact is that the reading will be more memorable and enjoyable if you bring your child’s senses alive along with the experience, whether it’s enjoying a mug of hot chocolate along with the book, or reading beneath a make-shift tent made from chairs and a blanket.  Be creative!”

By inventing fun activities surrounding reading that you can do regularly, you will establish a firm foundation of reading in your child’s life, which can yield joy you may have previously thought was unimaginable.  In another article I recently wrote for QueryCat entitled, “How can we help struggling readers?” I said, “I challenge you to think of creative ways to make reading more fun in your households, so that it just becomes another healthy aspect of your lifestyles.  Reading is just another activity we hope children will do independently, and successfully.” 

I am a woman who practices what she preaches!  So, in my own efforts to come up with creative ways to bring reading alive at home, I pondered inexpensive and simple ways to bring favorite books alive in passionate, memorable ways for elementary-aged children. 

A couple of years ago, Southern New Hampshire University thought of an ingenious way to merge the efforts of their students who were majoring in Education, with students who were majoring in Culinary Arts.  Future teachers and future chefs seemed like an unlikely pair, yet the results were unmistakably, deliciously creative… all the while making reading fun.  College-aged students collaborated with elementary-aged students to make book-themed cookies.  They all savored cookies while delighting in reading the books upon which the cookies were based.

Whether it is making artwork, cookies, or make-shift forts… couple great books with great, simple projects.  Make reading a lively, multi-sensory experience each week in your home.

Here are some suggestions, which are based upon the recommendations I provided to the University students for their Cookies & Books Party:

1.  I immediately thought of Lilly’s Purple Plastic Purse by Kevin Henkes.  It would be great fun to make cookies shaped like the main character—a mouse, or of her purse, of course!

2.  Kevin Henkes is one of my favorite author/illustrators, so I also thought of his book Kitten’s First Full Moon, which won the Caldecott Medal in 2005.  It is a favorite among elementary-aged students.  Children could make moon or kitten- shaped cookies!
3.  You might want to throw in a classic book or two, such as Where the Wild Things Are.  You can’t go wrong with this Maurice Sendak classic tale of Max, visiting the wild creatures.  Imagine the monster-shaped cookies!
4.  Along the line of classic children’s picture books, you might consider a title or two by other all-time favorite author/illustrators, such as Eric Carle or Tomie dePaola.  Carle’s Very Busy Spider or Very Hungry Caterpillar would inspire gorgeous web-shaped or butterfly-shaped cookies.  Tomie dePaola also has many classics, such as The Art Lesson, which may inspire palette or paint brush themed cookies.

5.  Getting back to more modern literature for children, I would recommend a relatively new title, Traction Man is Here by Mini Grey.  It is a British book that won awards all over the world.  I have it has required reading in my current university-level children’s literature class, and my adult students adore the book.  There are so many ideas for cookies from that book, too.  Traction Man is a modern day super hero, so children could make cookies shaped like his cape, etc.

6.  Last, on a more serious, academic note, I might recommend a more educational title such as Show Way by Jacqueline Woodson.  This book has exquisite illustrations of quilts, and how quilts have historically played a role in the lives of African Americans, especially with roots to the Underground Railroad.  Children could make gorgeous, colorful cookies shaped and designed like quilts.

Of course, these are merely ideas to help spark your own creations.  I am confident that you and your children can come up with even better ideas!  Please don’t feel restricted to cookies, either.  Painting, clay, sidewalk chalk, or even non-baked items in the kitchen would all be intriguing ways to make reading a sincere blast on a regular basis in your home.  I would even recommend a trip to the library for books, quickly followed by a brief excursion to a dollar store for inexpensive items and inspirations to go along with your reading adventures.

After exploring reading in these invigorating ways, on a regular basis in your home, I would be shocked to hear that your child still says reading is boring or that he/she hates it.  Who knows—you and your children may just even be pulled away from the television long enough to enjoy a chapter book or two together!

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How do we foster a love of reading in our children?

Wednesday, August 27th, 2008 | Reading | No Comments

**This article originally appeared on QueryCat.com**

 

 

 

 

As a professor specializing in children’s literature and literacy, I am commonly asked this question by concerned parents and teachers.  While some children devour books, others avoid reading like the plague.  Not surprisingly, there are no easy answers to this complex question.  In this article, I will explore some relatively straight forward ways to foster not only a love of reading, but also an overall sense of independence in children.  Whether it’s reading, or any other aspect of life which requires independence, children need healthy practices modeled for them by caring adults.

 

Fostering independence and a love of reading… and writing, too!

 

Quite simply reflecting on our own experiences with reading and writing are powerful ways to inform our teaching and parenting. Children need to see that you read and write for real purposes, and that it’s a natural, healthy part of your everyday life, just as you would eat a healthy diet and exercise. 

 

Here are some pointers and ideas:

 

       What were your favorite texts as a child?  Perhaps you remember cherished classics like Where The Wild Things Are by Maurice Sendak, or Peter Rabbit by Beatrix Potter?  (Who could forget mischievous Max, who gets sent to bed with no supper in Where The Wild Things Are?  Max goes on a delightful adventure with not-so-frightening monsters.  Just as memorable is good-ol’ Peter Rabbit, who is equally as naughty as Max, when he defies his mother by entering Mr. McGregor’s garden.) 

 

Merely share your favorite books with children.  That energy will be contagious, trust me.  If you don’t have specific or fond memories of reading, or of favorite books from your own childhood, don’t worry!  Please see this as a wonderful opportunity to start a new tradition, and a healthy routine in both the lives of your children, and yourself.                 

 

       Carve out special time in the day and/or week, whether it’s at bedtime, or Sunday afternoons, when you can create “warm fuzzy” memories together that are associated with reading.  By “warm fuzzy” I mean a multi-sensory experience, which doesn’t have to be fancy.  The fact is that the reading will be more memorable and enjoyable if you bring your child’s senses alive along with the experience, whether it’s enjoying a mug of hot chocolate along with the book, or reading beneath a make-shift tent made from chairs and a blanket.  Be creative!

 

Honestly, I don’t ever remember my parents reading to me.  My mother says that she did, but I just don’t remember it.  This is probably for two reasons: one, it wasn’t frequent enough; and two, there was no sensory experience surrounding the reading.  On the other hand, I do have very clear, tender memories of reading with my grandmother.  That is because we would read frequently together, and I can picture the pink blanket with which we used to snuggle, and the musty smell of the library books.  Reading with my grandmother became an honored ritual.   Consistency is key!

 

       Writing is very much the same as reading.  If you do write frequently, involve your child in the writing, even if it’s as simple as a grocery list or a greeting card.  Similar to my suggestion of creating “warm fuzzy” memories associated with reading, do the same with writing.  In his book A Fresh Look at Writing, Donald Graves gives the suggestion of writing for 10 minutes about a photo from your wallet.  This is an uncomplicated way to make your writing meaningful, in a way that directly relates to your life, and to your child’s life, while preserving precious memories.

 

       Last, and perhaps most importantly, please give yourselves and your children credit.  You are all reading “the world” on a continual basis.  That is, to read, you need not always read books.  You are reading the television, movies, video games, the Internet, etc. on a daily basis.  That is reading!  Do yourselves and your children a favor by considering these activities as reading, and equip your children to read critically.  Today’s children are bombarded by a range of media, and it is our responsibility as parents and teachers to provide children with the eyes and tools to engage critically with media, so as not to get taken advantage of.  Get involved in your children’s passions, whether it’s comics, web pages, etc., and foster their critical reading lenses of these texts.    

 

Children need to constantly see that we all read and write for real purposes.

 

Once again, I must emphasize that the key to fostering great literacy practices in our children is that they must see that we all read and write for real purposes.  In fact, most people see reading/writing in one of the following two ways:

 

Authenticity (enjoyment and function)

 

versus

 

Artificial uses (assignments, extrinsic rewards)

 

There is absolutely no need for children to think of reading and writing as the boring and meaningless activities they do in school, for assignments and empty extrinsic rewards.  Show children that we read and write for real purposes in our daily lives, both to function as citizens (to balance/write checkbooks, vote, read/send mail) and to be happy human beings (in the ways we make a point to enjoy various reading and writing activities, such as writing to friends, joining a book club, etc.)

 

 

 

Remember… fostering any love is really tied to fostering independence.

 

Whether you want your child to tie his/her shoes, eat healthy, or read, it is all tied to fostering independence.  As adults, we cannot expect children to love and want to do anything unless we foster the autonomy and respect in them to want to do it, and to see the value in doing it.  When fostering independence, or a love of reading in your child, follow the 4 following steps:

 

  1. Model the reading behavior for the child.  You can’t expect the child to read unless you read… regularly!
  2. Try reading together, whether you read to your child, or your child reads to you.  You could even share the reading.  Many people have had tremendous success co-reading the Harry Potter series by J.K. Rowling with their children.
  3. It is not until this point that you can necessarily expect the child to be reading independently.  Once he/she does read independently, praise him/her.  Don’t harp on the child for not reading.
  4. Consistently check in to see how your child is doing with his/her reading.  Make a regular point to read with him/her.  Make sure children have stimulating reading materials, which are at an appropriate reading level for them.  Often, children simply get frustrated, and understandably so, when considering their reading material is just too hard for them.

 

In conclusion…

 

Parents, here are some good, concrete things you can do to help:

 

       Be readers and writers yourselves.

       Be bookbinders for your children’s home-made books. Contribute to book- making materials, both at home, and at school.

       Either volunteer in your child’s classroom, or help to coordinate the volunteering schedule and efforts for your child’s teacher, especially if you can’t make it to school during daytime hours.

       Fill out book club orders with your child.  Bring your child to the library on a regular basis.

       Help your children type their self-authored stories.  This is a great way for them to learn the intricacies of the keyboard, too. 

       Coordinate an effort for older students to read and write with younger buddies.

       Consider hosting a home literature discussion group for your child and his/her friends.  (If you’re looking for ideas on how to organize a book club for your child, I would suggest reading Literature Circles by Harvey Daniels.)

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